What to send when they're under the weather

When someone you care about is sick or recovering, you want to do something. The question isn’t always what they’d like, but what they have the energy for. A good get well gift takes that into account. It asks nothing of them. Here's how we think about it.

Pick things that work from the couch

If it needs setup, a trip to the store, or a free afternoon, it's not a good fit. Tea, a soft pair of socks, a lip balm, something yummy to snack on: all of these work with zero effort. The whole point is that they can open it in bed and be done.

Keep it small and easy to ignore

Someone who's unwell may not have energy for a thank you note, so a gift that's quiet and easy to accept is a kindness. A few well chosen things beat a big pile. Nothing in the box should feel like a to-do.

Skip the things that need an explanation

A complicated gadget, a book on getting better, a wellness routine. Anything that hints at advice can land wrong, even from a friend who means well.

Check the food

If you're including something to eat, think about what the person likes and doesn't like. Dietary labels come from each maker's packaging, so read the ingredient list on the item and check with the person or someone close to them if you're unsure.

Add a note, even a short one

The note matters more than the contents. “Thinking of you. No need to reply.” is a perfect message. Showing you're thinking of them is the whole point.

If you want it done for you

Our get well soon baskets are made for exactly this: a few good things, wrapped and ready, with a card including your note. See the Get well soon baskets.